How would you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you wit his baby mama that hes been with for 13 years ?

when we got together ,i think that he was living with her. he always had his kids and now we live together and he don;t get to see them. she calls and talk to him about stuff that doesn't deal with their kids. they use to argue over the kids cause she wouldn't let him see them and now they are the bestest of friends. i'm happy that he get to see his kids but things just don't seem right. they were together for 13 years and he says that he don't won't her cause she got on his nerves and all she did was nag him. he told me that they argued alot. hes a good man i wouldn't trade him for the world. hes good as gold. i've been hurt in so many ways i don't know what to believe. i love and trust him but you know when you got a feeling that something ain;t right it ain't? 13 years that is a long time. hell they could be ******* he wouldn't care and she wouldn't care just as long as she got what she wanted. i know how bitches like her work.How would you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you wit his baby mama that hes been with for 13 years ?
well you said that you trust him... then you need to do just. Women, especially babies mamas will do what ever just to spite and make someone unhappy... (personal experience). You need to make this decision on your own, there is nothing you can do about him seeing her, he has to. You cannot tell him that you don't want him talking to her, because he has to. Then ONLY thing(s) you can do is....


1......approach him with your concerns,


2...... leave him and move on


3...... trust him and don't say anything.





This is something you have to decide.... love is blind.. don't let it make you a fool!How would you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you wit his baby mama that hes been with for 13 years ?
Gurl 13 years is a long time. I agree if you believe something is going on then some thing is going on. It may not be sex (yet) but it is something. Especially if you didn't feel that way before they started being nicy cnie to each other agian. I don't urge you to leave him but definately tell him how you are feeling. And spend more time with him. You know keep your face present in the picture. Go with him to pick them up. Offer to pick them up yourself sometimes. Tell him you want to be involved in this. This will 1 ease your feelings because your right there. 2 Make him appreciate you and if some of those old feelings for her are arrousing you being right there to conter act them will help.
regardless of what they are going to have a bond because he has kids with her if you have this feeling you should tell him how you feel instead of pretending things are okay it will make him feel happy that you told him and this will strengthen your relationship and sometimes it is the case when you have children because the feelings are there and it doesnt completely goes away
Dump him. He has his love already.
If they're sleeping together its 50/50 so quit trying to blame her. And if you're jealous of the mother of his children, then you don't need to be involved with a man who HAS children. Whether you or anyone else likes it or not they're going to be a part of each other's lives forever. You should be happy they're civil to one another now instead of fighting all the time. Quite honestly, you sound like a possessive control freak who would much rather he drop all his other responsibilities to suit you than be a good father to his children.
Sounds like Karma! Or jerry springer s...! You did the same thing when you got with him the first time. What did you expect?
HE CHEATED ON HER WITH YOU NOW SHES CHEATING ON YOU WITH HER. WHATS GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. HES HAPPY NOW BECAUSE HE GETS THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS A LITTLE BIT OF YOU AND A LITTLE BIT OF HER. IF HE CHEATED ON HER WITH YOU WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT HE WANT CHEAT ON YOU WITH HER.