How do you deal with a boyfriend with a short temper?

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My boyfriend has the shortest temper ever he fought with me over a damn ipod thinking I was cheating on him! Sounds so silly but its so true he pushed me away when I tried to make up with him and showed him my ipod but he refused to look!


Hes usually a good guy when he isnt mad but when he is mad he throws a fit pretty much and then comes back a day later saying sorry..


Any tips of dealing with his short temper?How do you deal with a boyfriend with a short temper?
Tell him how much his temper makes you feel scared. If he doesn't care, then move on, or it WILL get worse.How do you deal with a boyfriend with a short temper?
pfft. firstly, how long have you been together? how involved is your relationship- do you live together...yadda yadda. if this is a relatively new relationship...just move on. i had a few of these relationships. i grew up in a household full of yelling and screaming and i didn't want to deal with that anymore. i had one boyfriend who threw temper tantrums worse than any two year old i've ever seen. this is what it comes down to-- do you want to waste time in your life either 1)waiting for him to change and calm down (and who knows how long that could take IF it would ever happen) or 2) trying to change him yourself (which, in the end, leaves you desperate and him pissed of) or you could move on with your life. it sounds harsh, i know, but is this the kind of thing you wanna put up with? and it sounds like he's got some trust issues...do you want to always be reassuring him that you're not doing anything wrong? life doesn't have to be like that..
Don't deal with it! You shouldn't be in a relationship with a guy who physically hurts you and accuses you of things you haven't done. You shouldn't be making excuses for his behavior because what he is doing to you isn't right. I'm pretty sure there was a Tyra Banks show on relationships like this, so you should go try to Youtube it (: Plus, if he's harming you over little things such as an iPod, then imagine how much worse he will hurt you when something much bigger happens between you.


Just think about what you're doing and don't put yourself in harm's way.


Good luck ! (:
im in the same situation!!


my b/f of 4yrs has a short fuse. he's so sweet and all that good stuff but when he's upset he don't know how to act.





just talk to him about what ever it is b/c when i just stand there he gets pissed even more. most likely he's looking for a response from you. just try not to sound like you're trying to be smart. tell he to calm down and explain you're side and let him know that when he loses his temper like that it causes you to pull back and lets him just talk (if it's True).


i hope it calms him down my b/f is starting to realize it and trying to work on it.


just be very supportive. if he gets mad and doesn't have a huge outburst tell him he's doing better and if he still show no signs just remind him to at least try.





**GOOD LUCK**
Break up with him. If he won't trust you %26amp; pushes you around, then he's not someone worth being with. Think about it this way- if he's like that now, what will he be like in the future?





You're in an abusive relationship. This is not a good thing, trust me. My mom was in one %26amp; she thought she could change him. What did he give her for her troubles? Mental abuse, physical abuse %26amp; rape.





You say your boyfriend wouldn't do that? Well... if he's willing to push you when you tried to make up with him, then eventually he'll snap %26amp; do worse. Abusive ones always do, especially when they know that you'll stick around afterwards.
You leave him...Its not worth the stress. There are plenty of men out there. You don't have to settle. He needs to grow up. Don't take abuse...Know your self worth and value as a person.
give him space when hes upset...





dont scream at him or have a tone with him if at all possible.....





just do everything you would want him to do if you were pissed
Leave him?