How to deal with my boyfriend 1st love exgirlfried??

my boyfriend has this exgirlfriend..they dated for a year. she was his first love, they broke up because she cheated on him. he dated other girls, but now that he is dating me...she calls him 24/7 she text him all the time. He tells me/everybody that he loves me....once i i got his phone just to play around and checked his text messages..he was texting her...and one of the text he told her that he loved her, but i was his girlfriend...he told me that he loves her in a different way..she was his first love etc...now..im a senior they are juniors....knowing her she will try to get him back..specially because im not going to be aound next year...what do i do?? (he tells me that he is never going back with her, so does his and my friends)How to deal with my boyfriend 1st love exgirlfried??
we guys keep our promices if we say something like that then girls have nothing to worry aboutHow to deal with my boyfriend 1st love exgirlfried??
Get a new boyfriend.
As a guy myself... I like to condsider myself and expert on the subject... and my expert opinion is all men are slime.....





The unfortunate part is this can only end badly... he most likely is not totally committed to you if he feels the need to lead on this other young lady... or worse he is trying to figure outhow to date you both at the same time... I strongly believe that love is a choice ... (not some hollywood style euphoric feeling, that is lust or desire) and let him know he can't choose both...
yeah, he may love her, but being in a relationship with you means he shouldn't tell her his feelings, however they may be.


ex's are that for a reason.


he may be stuck in the past or still stuck on her.


you should check everything out between them thoroughly before pursuing your relationship further.
Well that's not a good thing at all.. If he is telling her that he loves her n tells you that he does.. Than he never even drop the feelings that he had for her.. More likely he loves you but He also loves her.. I wouldn't stay in that relationship at all b/c he could end up cheating on you with her or leave you with her.. She is an ex for a reason, that doesn't mean she should be in his future.. Now that she's back and he is talking to her, That's bad.. I wouldn't trust that relationship
let him go. he;s not been real with you. go before he hurts you meaning your been the idiot because you knwo they still talk and probably still have sex.
You have to tell him, that it makes you really uncomfortable when he talks to his ex like that. You also have to make sure he's over her because it doesn't sound like it.
1.You have the right to be bothered by the fact that she is constantly texting him, calling him, and trying to steal him away from you. You should tell him that this bothers you and makes you uncomfortable. If he loves you like he says he does, he will do everything in his power to not make you feel that way. Talk to him, he can't guess what you're feeling. 2. You need to ask him if he still wants to be with her. Tell him to look inside of his heart, and make sure that you prepare yourself for the answer. Good luck!
if he is texting her behind your back there is a high chance that he will cheat on you behind your back... if there was nothing there he would not have to hide it from you... test him and ask him to call her infront of you and to tell her to stop telling him that he loves him and that you are the one for him... in other words, if he can tell her to back off then you can trust him if not there is something wrong and you should move on...