Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you deal with having an extremely attractive boyfriend?

Girls (or guys in some cases) - how do you deal with it? I'd like to know. My boyfriend is so gorgeous, I am not going to lie. But so many girls hit on him, stalk him, even when they know that I exist! This makes me extremely jealous and upset. I know that he won't cheat on me, but basically, he could have any girl he wanted. How do you deal with these feelings?How do you deal with having an extremely attractive boyfriend?
He chose you didn't he? You should be reassured that he wants you and not all of the other girls who try to hit on him.


He must find you attractive in ways that the other girls do not have - you need to find a way to boost your self esteem - if you can accept yourself for what you are and not what you perceive as being acceptable i.e. love yourself in a wholesome way -the way that you were created or made - or for what you are - then you will have a head start


You already have a head start in knowing that he will not cheat on you and congratulations on realising that you do have a problem - that goes a long way towards helping you solve it


Good luck How do you deal with having an extremely attractive boyfriend?
Enjoy the fact that he wants you and only you and every girl that crosses his path secretly envys you for hogging him all to yourself. You've scored hunny, don't let it get to you or it'll ruin your relationship. He needs a woman that trusts him and can handle that he gets alot of attention. If you can't deal he'll find someone that can. He can't do anything about his physical appearance but he can toss out a jealous untrusting girlfriend.
this has happened to me n my boyfriend n i tld thm tht i dont lyke it wen he ';goesz along'; with them wen thy flirt wit hiim. i tlkd to hiim n he says he won do anything to hurt me bc he luvsz me n i ges if yur boyfriend luvsz yu thn he won do anythin to hurt yu, i don rly pay mind to thoze girls tho bc i noe tht he got me n tht he won go to thm =] jusz ignore thm or try teln thm off thtsz wut i do wen i get tird of thm =]
You just have to trust him and let go of your insecurities. If you cannot trust him then maybe you should reevaluate why you are even in the relationship. If, however, you believe that you can then you should feel proud. He is ';gorgeous'; (as you say) and he is with you, obviously for a reason. I think you need to check up on how you view yourself.
Well,um tell the girls this is my man back off,and if he is mad for doing that he likes that attention and u may not need him,but tell him that too.
i look into his beautiful eyes and realize that he chose you over all those stalking gurls and be thankful just put everyone else out of your head


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The best way to combat this is to realise that hes yours, When girls hit on my boyfriend I tease them by givving him a big kiss or flirting wildly with him. This usally scares them off!
i just act like im super sweet all the time. and treat everyone the same. just act like you dont care infront of the girlss .
(not trying to sound mean) but just deal with it i guess everything you have has its bad things and its good things
u can't althoug u could try to gain some confidence in the fact that he's with u. those other girs are low lives. maybe ask him how he feels. pooor u x
i get over it.
plant a long wet one on him the next time a female trys to flirt
you should feel like a Queen or on top of the world
i let it go.

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