My boyfriend and I were going through rough times a few months ago and he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. Now she claims that she is pregnant and he is most likely the father. I forgave him for cheating and he has shown me nothing but good things in our relationship. He has really built the trust again and has shown a lot of remorse for what has happened. I feel that I want to stay with him and give him another chance but now that it is getting closer to the baby being born I am really torn between doing what my heart wants or what my head wants. My heart is still very much in love with him and I want to work it out but my head is saying don't be stupid...he could cheat again...I will have to be a stepmom and I am only 22 years old...not ready for that. What can I do....has anyone stayed in this situation and had a happy ending? I need a little hope...My boyfriend cheated and got the other girl pregnant, how do I deal with this?
You need to break up with him before your life is dragged down with his and becomes unnecessarily complex. You are young, go out date other people, have fun with friends. The best way to get over him is to distance yourself. You do not want any contact with this man for a while. In the meantime, treat yourself. Give yourself a makeover just because you can, go shopping, plan a girls night, watch some movies, catch up on some reading, have some family time, etc. Trust me, this man is going no where fast, and the ex girlfriend is about to complicate his life so badly. You should not have to suffer this too (he is getting what he bargained for), and you do not have to mother a child when you are not ready to, especially one you do not have ties to. If you decide to stay with him, you are going to mess up your life in the progress. Find someone who is faithful to only you.My boyfriend cheated and got the other girl pregnant, how do I deal with this?
your fooling yourself ,he's about to have a child with its gonna make him a father and there not gonna be space for you anymore except if he wants to be not responsable for his action and act like a kid.
why don't you just move on. I'm all for second chances, but come on..getting a girl pregnant?
It's pretty clear that you've not forgiven him for cheating on you, if you did, then you wouldn't be having these feelngs now. Yes he got the ex girlfriend knocked up, things like that happen, BUT you chose to stay with him after he cheated and after the girl said she was pregnant, now you're having cold feet because the baby is due soon. If you can't face the fact that he will be a father and you'll be a step mom, then cut your losses and walk away. You obviously don't trust him anymore because if you did, you wouldn't be doubting everything now, so move on and let him be a father to his baby, and you just find someone else.
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