Friday, August 20, 2010

How to deal with a distancing boyfriend?

Lately my boyfriend has been p*ssed off with his job, friend being fired, bad shifts, and generally doesn't think it's too great where he is. We're in different countries atm, Vancouver - UK for just under a year, for 3 months so far (he's flying to see me for a week in 2 months).





p.s. and before any says anything he's not cheating... too long to explain how i know.





When he's having problems and a bad time, he tends to shy away and the messages i get aren't quite so elaborate and chatty on the phone (still rings me tho). I stil get love you's but not the elaborate long love emails i usually do. You get the drift. Men eh! I know i'll pass, but until than what should i do thats for the best?





Give him a bit of space to sort things out himself, and just follow his lead, go out with friends moer until he's sorted etc? Just keep texting and phoning (we text a lot.. saving for a laptop each to webcam cos we're 19/20) as usual?How to deal with a distancing boyfriend?
When you are that stressed, alot of things can happen to you that are not normal. This will only be a sample to see if you ever make it through marriage. People don't normally give up when things go bad in their life......you have to just try alittle harder. He probably misses you and is homesisck and still put up with the things at work. Imagine how you would feel if that happened to you? Just hang on and try and understand what all he is trying to tell you. If he didn't care, he would quit writing all together. Give it more time.How to deal with a distancing boyfriend?
I think you should give him a little space to work some things out. Hanging out with your friends might help take your mind off of the situation.

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