Boyfriend Cheating- Question 2.?

Okay, I know i need to dump my boyfriend for sure now thanks to everyone who answered my last question. He is obviously controlling and it's a little late about losing friends considering I've already lost them all. He has all of my passwords and i


want them back, no matter what i do i can't get them. We lost our virginity together, HOPEFULLY. And he said he's never done anything before me which i considar a lie. I've been expierienced before which has been hard on him, i'm sure. We always talk about our future together about getting married. But whenever i tried breaking up with him before he threatens to blackmail me and e-mail my mom pictures and what not of stuff. (You know.) And i'm just tired of it. He's sixteen and i'm fifteen. And ending it just hasn't been an option. Let's just put it this way, it's IMPOSSIBLE. But i would really be happy with my old life back. Friends, Dating, My own passwords, NO BLACKMAILING. Please help me, on how to deal with this.


Thank you so much. :(Boyfriend Cheating- Question 2.?
Come clean to your mom. Let her know that you are in an abusive relationship (that's what it is, believe it or not) and that you want out and you need her help. My friend was in a similar situation, and she told her parents about it; wouldn't you know, her ex mailed her parents a letter, detailing some of their sexual experiences and other disturbing, personal things. Her parents had expected this, and they weren't upset with her; they were just happy she was out of the relationship!





So be forthcoming about what has happened to you, get the support you need (since it sounds like you don't have a lot of friends anymore, you need your mom's support right now). Counseling may help, since he has broken you in some ways. Copy your email address book and keep it private; when you're done, make a new email account and email your friends and let them know what happened and that this is your new email account. Keep your passwords secret.





Ending a relationship is scary, it's hard, and it can feel impossible -- but it is not impossible. Get help from people around you, and you will make it.Boyfriend Cheating- Question 2.?
Now you learned why taking naked pictures of yourself and whatever was such a bad idea. Never do that again.





Let him email the pictures if he wants. You really should be having a serious talk with your mom about all of this, anyway. As far as passwords and so on, change your email, and anything else you have on the internet. Block his phone numbers.
just change all of your passwords in one day and make it something that he would never think of try and talk with your old friends and see if they will be your friends again and the blackmailin thing i think he is bluffin how would he get it to your mom anyway mail you can intercept that but anyway dont worry about it and change passwords before you break up with him
thats a diffucilut situation, but hte first thing i would do would be go to my friends and explain to them everything and explain to them that your tyring to get rid of him ( it will alot easier to get through all of this if oyu have friends) talk to your mom about ti and see what she says, you have to show him that he is not in control of you.


I hope it all works out for you. Good Luck!
come on, don't get nervous. if he is ur first love then u have nt seen nothing yet. all i have to say, is if comes really in ur mind to dump him then go ahead, do thing that really comes out of ur mind, not because any one told u, in this situation i can tell u to dump him or go ahead with him. u have to decide for urself
It sounds like once you get rid of him, you'll be able to get your life back, and he's cost you far too much, already. How to do that? Take away his power!! Talk to your mom - she may be disappointed, but I'll bet she'll be right there with you if you're honest with her.





Good luck to you!
obviously this is a horrible relationship.. and maybe you should have thought how much you gave him of yourself. now your paying for it. taking pictures? he has every right to show them... you practically gave him permission. and your virginity.. well sorry but youll never get that back.
HEY YO! BOYFRIEND *****! IF YO READING THIS **** LIKE YOU READ ALL YOUR GIRLS ******* MAILS, **** OFF DUDE A RELATIONSHIP AINT ABOUT CONTROLLING YOUR WOMAN ITS ABOUT TRUST RESPECT RISK LOVE. IF YOU TOO MUCH OF A ***** TO LET YOUR CHICK OFF THE LEASH, THEN **** YOU DONT DESERVE GIRLS IN YOUR LIFE MAN. EASE UP, GET SECURE MAN, BECAUSE SHES NOT THE PROBLEM DUDE, ITS YOU DAWG. ITS YOU.
Your only real solution is to tell your mom. With her in your corner, he'll be running. That won't keep the photos off the internet, but you will have your life back.





Hope your mom will help you.
*** hi mcall the police! **** he cant threatn u. next time becareful who u share intmate photos or secrets with because **** like this happens. jsut ignore him. do u think he will really do it? make new passwords move on dont talk to him cutt him off he will get the pix.
You need to tell your parents what is going on so that they can help you! What he is doing is more than controling its against the law, blackmail is a serious crime.
delete all your profiles and make new ones that he dont kno about if that dont work let your mom kno that he has ur passwords and let her block that profile and u make a new 1 if that dont work then i dont kno wat 2 say





sounds like a real jerk good luck ;)
Agree. Tell Mom. Tell DAD too. Get Dad to call little boy and dare him so send pix of his little darling around the world wide web.





He'll go away.
Change the passwords
Just break up with him


Rebuild yourself up with God's help
Get a harder man, or the police(:
get black mail on him and dump him asap
change all your passwords now
change ur password dear
I know it's going to be really hard, but you have to come clean to your mom. Tell her what you have done (if you feel you can talk to her) and then tell her what's going on...and that you dont want to be like this...but that he's blackmailing you of sending pictures.. Tell her you want to change and you need her support...honestly, I see that as the only thing holding you back: the blackmailing stuff. Hopefully your mom is the type that wont go ballistic. Once you do that...completely lose touch with him and start over and LEARN FORM YOUR MISTAKES. Also, pray whatever you are feeling before speaking to your mom. Don't be shocked if her eyes pop out, cuz your so young...be prepared and understand where she's comming from...hopefully she'll understand you. Once you do that, you can move on completely.
Oh sweetie...you're dating an abuser.





He may have never hit you physically but he is abusing you verbally and emotionally. You NEED to tell your mother what's going on. He's threatening you with those pics as a way of keeping you with him and under ';control'; and you cannot allow him to bully you.





If you do not end this now, it will continue to escalate and you may end up eventually married to this jacka** because you're afraid to leave him. Call a domestic violence hotline. Teen domestic violence is one of the most underreported crimes today.





Get out now!





Once you are away from this a**hole, your friends will probably slowly start coming back into your life and you will slowly start to heal, but you need counseling and your mom's support. Tell her TODAY what has been going on. I think that she'll probably want to throttle this little boy (H*LL, I don't know you and I want to THROTTLE him) and will do everything in her power to protect you.





http://www.ndvh.org/educate/what_is_dv.h鈥?/a>





Go to that website and call them TODAY. They can assist you in what you need to do and help you with counseling services.





Good luck, sweetie and God bless!
Wait, if he owns your passwords, then can't you just make new accounts of those same websites. And puh lease, haha guys for some reason talk about marriage too much. The last time a guy talked like that to me was when I was in Second grade and he was in fifth grade. But of course it never happened. You could tell an adult, and this guy should bug off for real. Everybody has their own life, and it's not fair that he acts like that when you're just his girlfriend! But remember, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!! Try to gain back your friends, somehow.
You got yourself in a bad situation. First thing to do is come up with a game plan. Where does he keep the pictures of you two, and can you get them back? What passwords does he have? You are 15 so he probably does not have access to any financial information. Make a list of everything that needs to be resolved and come up with a game plan. I have to guess we are talking about passwords to email accounts, myspace, etc, etc. Do you know them or does he just use them to sign on for you? If you know them make time to change them all to something you know all at once so he does not see it coming. Taking inappropriate pictures is something you should not have done. Getting them back especially if they are digital is very hard (sometimes impossible, once they go online anyone anywhere in the world can save them). My suggestion is come clean. Tell your mom and/or dad. They are not going to be happy but imagine how they are going to respond when they see pictures of you with no cloths on (or worse) on someone else's My Space or even worse if your boyfriend emailed them to your parents. With a good game plan and planning you can comfort your boyfriend with your parents in front of his parents about all these issues and hopefully get back (delete) these pictures. If you have any evidence of him blackmailing you save it, give it to your parents so they can use it if the need to. You do not want the police involved but it might come to that. Sit down, write down everything you want to happen (get the pictures back, get your passwords back, etc, etc), find help (your parents!), and do it!
The only thing that i can tell you is that his age. I was once that age im 19 now and thing will slow down for him. He must have looks on his side then. and another thing is that he does it because he is young and just living life which is a average male anyway. But you need to tell him that he needs to slow down because he just might come to the one he wants to be with and she might end up cheating on him or just playin with his heart and he will be HURT. Take it form somebody who knows. If that dont work jus leave him alone. You can do better