How can I deal with a perfect but insecure boyfriend?

My current partner has been cheated on twice by two previous girlfriends (was with both for two years). I have been with him now for 8 months.





He said he trusts me, but he said there is still doubt in his mind and he cant help it. He is being very insecure and we have stopped going clubbing because of the worry. The problem seems to be getting worse and I wonder if there is something I can do to help. He is so frightened of losing me that he makes the relationship complicated.How can I deal with a perfect but insecure boyfriend?
Its normal for a man to feel this way especially after hes been cheated on twice.


He probobly wants to trusts you but he cant yet because he has had bad experiences with girls in the past.





Just show him how much you love him. And help him stay strong. When he gets parronoid and insecure just give him a hug and a kiss reasuure him everythings alright.





After a while he should realize that your different and will trust you fully.





xHow can I deal with a perfect but insecure boyfriend?
Give him lots of reassurance, but don't change your behaviour (DO go clubbing!) to appease his concerns. It will only prove to him that he's right to be worried - that may be why things are getting worse.





Again, lots of reassurance from you needed that you love him and have absolutely no desire to go looking elsewhere because you're so happy being with him.





Remind him it's very unfair to judge you based on his ex's behaviour.
i agree still continue clubbing that definitely can't stop, because what comes after that!!! I am a guy and words mean alot. Just continue to reassure him, tell him how much you love him. his your world, all the gay cheesy stuff. and whilst your out clubbing without him, messged that to him when your pissed as well to show that your still thinking of him. don't ghet mad he has every right to be worried. AND DONT CHEAT ON HIM
as your relationship gets closer to his dreaded 2 year mark he probably figures you'll get bored and leave him as well, Just show him your not getting bored with him.
wll thats easy u can doo many things to make him feel secure,u can start by activating agian ur sex life wiz him more, make him feel like he is a man,make him feel important for example ask advices from him,
its natural