Monday, August 16, 2010

How do i deal with a boyfriend stealer?

this is how it happened my best friends nows about the drama me and my boyfriend are having so she said she'll talk to him, well it looks like she did more than talk...she told him a lot of lies about me like(i was cheating on him)he belived her so she asked him out 3 weeks later the relashionship didnt go so good now she want me to be her BF again and he wants me to be his GF again what schould i do????????How do i deal with a boyfriend stealer?
just dont talk to her anymore! i guess she wasnt really a fiend if she did that to you. to me, it sounds like she used to, so she could reach her goal(your bf)....id say maybe you should move on, and meet other people...and if your bf let your friend do more than ';talk'; then, you should move on from both of themHow do i deal with a boyfriend stealer?
Do nothing ... be cool and say yes and play games with them... they also did that and have come again to you... now it is ur turn to teach them that u also can be very evil...
Beat her up and take ur man back.
Well she is a total waste of space. What a useless friend. Why be friends with such a liar? If she's screwed you over before she wont hesitate in doing it again. As for the guy, its not so much his fault. He should have trusted you but maybe he deserves just one more chance? Tell him he needs to really make it up to you
first you have to ask yourself... What feels right? yur true friends never pursue your mates, never lie on you, maybe for you but not against. You also have to ask yourself, how easy was it for him to bellive her, how easy was it for him to leave you? It might happen again and it might not? You have to be willing to take that risk? You also have to know your worth? Belive it or not you will have to start from scratch because if you want him you should let him learn that you are speacial, someone who is caring and thus should be cared for.. He must, let me rephrase, men must learn to value YOUR feelings, presense, heart, mind and soul... Do you deserve better?
';KICK HER IN THE NUTZ!!!!'; -Cartman
Break a glass bottle in her face! Violence solves everything
i agree with bufri.
I would not tolerate it. I would tell him and her NO because she is backstabbing and he don't trust you!!!
if he was worth having, he wouldn't have left you for her. don't take him back! and if she did this once she will do it again. find a different friend who won't stab you in the back
My first thought was to kick her azz--but she got hers in the end, no boyfriend and no best friend! Sucks to be her!! As far as the boyfriend goes, tell him to take a dump-you can do much better than to have these 2 losers in your life!!
dump them both..all he will do is cheat on you again and she will step all over you any chance she gets
ditch the gal!


how do you know that she won't try that sleazy stunt again?


friends are forever but true love should not be neglected!
girl and you still ask.... first you don't tell your single girlfriend what is going on between you and your man. second you want to get with a guy that believed all the lies that were said about you hello......... third your thinking about becoming friends with a girl that made a fool of you laugh at you...........i can't believe your still asking get up and smell the coffe what makes you so sure that it's not going to happen again........... don't give them a second thought move on ...........later on you can forgive them but never forgettttttttttttttttttttt.
A best friend would NOT do that to you. A best friend would protect you from a loser boyfriend not turn into a loser friend. Also, you need to believe that you deserve better than how they both treated you. It's time to move on and find a true best friend and a boyfriend that respects you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Don't ever talk to either one of them again. If you surround yourself with loser people you will always get treated bad. Move on girl they are not worth your time or energy.
If i were you...i would be her friend again but if she starts up again then say ';no not again lets just stay away from each other OK, i don't like bf stealer's.'; and i would go back out with him because he didn't know that she was lying and if i heard that my bf was cheating on me i would brake up with him too.so i would just start completely over and hope i don't happen again.
Do nothing and if they should ask about being your best friend and your boy friend. Tell them they have to earn your trust back first
I'd kick them both to the curb!If she stole your B/F,then she's not really a friend.The fact that he let her steal him,he's not worth your time!Life is short chalk it up for experience and move on!
Just go your way I would leave them both along. If you cna not trust the two people that you cared about at that time to do the right thing then you don't need them in your world. With people like that who need emerys. The world has a lot of decent and horest people
if she will do this to you in school then just think about what she will do to you when y'all are growen hell she will pebblier try to sleep with your husband leave her *** alone before it is too late
get them together and flat out ask them tell whatever is cool even-if its not then go from there

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