Is my boyfriend cheating on me or what?

We have been together for 4 years and i have always told him that i worry about him cheating on me and he tells me i dont have to worry about that because his ex cheated on him and he knows how bad that would hurt me. He dont talk to any other girls around me or hangs out with them but i still am worried. So recently ive been looking at his emails and i've seen porn sites which are understandable but i just seen a picture of him that he took without his shirt on and he never showed me that before. Then i came across pictures of some fat girl in his recently deleted folder. He is alos very secertly about his cell phone. He never lets me look at it. I dont know what the deal is! I am getting a little suspicious now. I mean i give everything he wants and needs and i love him very much. I just cant picture him doing this to me. And the hardest part is, I cant confront him about it cuz he will know i was in his emails and he will get mad. What should I do?! Please help me!Is my boyfriend cheating on me or what?
If he's visiting porn sites, I doubt he's cheating on you.


Most guys and girls are private about their phones.


Try not to be so unsecure,trust him a bit more,see what happens.


Stop trying to fix it if it aint broke. 4 years is a long time together.Is my boyfriend cheating on me or what?
Like Phew said, trust him more, see what happens. I don't like my phone to be looked through, same as everyone else I know. Porn sites are understandable, because well, guys can get,..uh...I think you know the rest. But this mainly happens when you are gone, and they are tired and stressed out. So treating him to a little more sexual experenice might help. But its all in yourself, and him, talk to him, and try to understand what is going on with him.
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There is a way to confront him about this without revealing that you've been looking through his stuff. I know because I've done it before and got stuff out of him without revealing my sneakiness. What I do I just bring up the subject of him cheating on me like telling him a dream I had or I can't help but sometimes think of him cheating, then later ask him if he ever did would he tell me as soon as he did it. The more you get into it and throw stuff like that at him, he'll tell you what.





Its really difficult to REALLY find out whats going on because all guys are different and I'm the type who does not let anyone get away with anything And when they do something really bad I make them feel like ****.





Just talking really will help, tell him how you feel and try really hard not to tell him that you looked through his stuff, I do it too sometimes and I feel bad because I know I cant trust him sometimes but try REALLY HARD not to do it anymore. Besides I bet you are 10x better than the fatty.





(gez i'm really bad at giving advice on this one, because I have the same problem)