Boyfriend cheating? what does this situation sound like to you?

i'm so confused right now.. this is the story: my boyfriend is an actor, and he was traveling to australia. its been three days since hes been gone, and i was going to meet up with him there next week. anyways, he calls me this morning and tells me he had sex with his 14 year old co-worker (i know, young, and it DISGUSTS ME! he's 17) and he was explaining how she was begging him to do it with her because it was her birthday, and she ';convinced'; him *or forced in his words*. I personally think its BULL, but me and my boyfriend have such a huge past, and we *were* in love, he supported me because i am pregnant, and it was just such an unlikely uncalled for thing to happen, finding out he had sex with her. I am in TOTAL shock, i'm too shocked to even be mad, i'm too shocked to cry. Please, someone help, how do i deal with this situation. he claims he wont do it ever again etc, i believe him because i still love him but i dont think i should even be involved any more now.. he not only did it with someone who is basically a child, but he also betrayed my trust and he even admitted that he didn't think much about what i would think while doing it with her and only stopped to think about it AFTERWARDS and now he ';regrets it';. HELP!!!!!!





and is sex between a 17 and 14 year old illegal in the UK? Or australia? or is it just totally immoral? Help.Boyfriend cheating? what does this situation sound like to you?
sounds pretty bad and i would in your case break up if i was cheated on for somone that young but with the fact of you being pregnant maybe you should give him one more chanceBoyfriend cheating? what does this situation sound like to you?
In Australia it is illegal. In the UK it is also illegal. You can even check this website,





http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm





It sounds almost like your boyfriend is having a hard time taking in your pregnancy.... Maybe you should call him and just talk. If you are not ready yet, wait..... then call. Because remember, Dooing nothing is not acomplishing anything!











This tells you everything........ sorry about the boyfriend....... But yes, It is illegal!


* Good luck with the bb! * ^-o-^
Once a cheater always a cheater.


get an abortion if you can if its with his kid,


if you want.





he could have said no to her its not that hard.


hes a jerk





leave him and find WAY better
What an a*ss to tell you over the phone
fact is, the way you deal with this now will set a standardfor how things are going to be from noe on. if you take him back soley because you ';love'; him, he'll know you're not going anywhere when he does what he wants. i can tell you that my wife dealt with my cheating on her on 2 seperate occasions and still wants to be with me because she loves me. i can tell you the brutal, honest truth of it that i respect her less because i know no matter what i do, she's going to deal with it. you guys are young, i'm only 23 but this all started when i was 19 and she was pregnant. make sense?
were i live it not illegal 3 more years and it would have been.





b/c your pregnant i would give him one more chance
if someone thhat is supposed to care about you , does something so hurtful and disrespectful to cheat on you and he could be having sex with her right now. if he'd hurt you once because someone asked him to, he'll do it again. why does another girls wants matter more than yours? he thinks he's some hot shot so he can leave you at home and be some man whore. you deserve better and if you dont believe so then you should stay with him. because he has betrayed you, %26amp; your trust and shared something that was special to yuo two with someone else. and it isnt even the fact that he had sex with a little girl but he hurt you %26amp; all he can do is apologize but im sure he wasnt thinking about his little pregnant girlfriend when he was inside some little girl!