Is my boyfriend cheating with porn?

I'm not normally bothered by porn but I noticed that my boyfriend subscribes to a handful of online sex forums. We have been together for almost a year and a half and he seems to be very faithful. However, I have noticed he is mainly subscribing to amateur porn sites. He does not appear to be contacting anyone and perhaps he's doing it for videos and for erotic stories...but is this something I should be worried about?





I don't know how to bring this up to him. I have caught my brothers watching porn on their computers in the past so I don't think porn is a huge deal. But it disturbs me that my boyfriend has been subscribing to new amateur sex forums frequently and I'm not sure if I should be worried.





Guys, please voice your opinion! If you were with someone you love, would you still search actively online for online porn? I almost wish he didn't desire ';amateur'; porn as I feel that it is inches closer to cheating with more ...';real'; girls.Is my boyfriend cheating with porn?
First of all, amateur pornography is not that amateur, so don't think too much about the stars and the production quality. Only be alarmed if there's gay porn, or worse, farm animals are somehow involved.





Really, don't waste your time worrying about it, but why be reluctant to ask him about it? He is supposed to be in a relationship with you, and it might help to know each other's tastes.





And just to tell you, when I was in a relationship, we gave porn to each other as gifts. Heck, we gave other people for sex to each other as gifts. Really, it all depends on what you two agree upon, so get to talking about it already!Is my boyfriend cheating with porn?
I personally would search online porn, but it's ok. Let your boyfriend do it if he wants to. To answer your question, it's a flatout no. How is porn cheating? That's my point.





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Like you said, you've caught your brothers surfin' the adult section of the web, too. And I have guy friends who watch porn and joke about sex. Maybe its just a ';guy thing.'; But you'd have to ask a guy to know for sure. :)





Or, maybe he's just learning some new moves that he can try out on you! ;)





If you think your BF is doing this because he's not satisfied in the bedroom then perhaps you should talk about it with him. Better to talk about it sooner than later. Why wait until you find him connecting with a real person on the internet? Hopefully it doesn't get to that point.


Although I would tread lightly and probably not let on that you know about his subscriptions to the online forums so that he doesn't feel embarrassed...but at least talk about areas where he's feeling a void.





Good luck!
From a guys opinion or just mine, it seems like he is getting bored with originality. Maybe ever love making session is the same for him, maybe he is just looking for something different. So mix it up a little, I know from personal experience the same things over and over will have me bored and wanting to see or do something new.





look at what kinda things he is watching and maybe try some of it. If hes watching passionate porn light some candles, if hes watching freaky stuff pull out a whip or handcuffs.





Best wishes,


-Zach
its probably a habit from earlier years and nothing. some guys just like porn. it might also be that he feels like hes not getting enough sex though too but i wont get into that, that's your Business
honey if u think that watching porn is like cheating u r a prude


if u think its a problem talk to him that is the only way to find out where u stand


another thing u might try is watching with him. u may enjoy the results
No. The fact that it's closer to ';real'; girls is all the more reason that you should not be worried. Porn is a visual stimulation, mentally it's not the same. Te fact that they are ';real'; girls just means he is probably excited by it more because it reminds him of you. He is attracted to you, a real girl, and uses that as visual stimulation in your absence, but mentally I am sure you are his amateur porn star. In private of course haha :P
porn sites usually do really freaky **** maybe u just ant puttn out enough or he just wants 2 do some freaky *** fantasy with them
na, porn is not cheating. i always allowed my boyfriends to watch porn cuz they always told me that those big women were actually a turn off, but they watch it for ';masterbating';. my current boyfriend however told me he didnt want to watch those cuz he had me to think about.
Either let him subscribe to those things... or start doing all the things he watches in those videos.
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hes only acting out...i mean, if he did those things in the videos with you, he prob wouldnt need em cuz hed have a ';real'; girl right?
maybe he wants to get better at it, like a watch n learn.





or maybe your not satisfying him enuf anymore?





bottom line: guys just like porn..
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Is your guy the one jacking it 12 times a day?
It's porn. I would much rather have my boyfriend watch a video of a three some then go have one.Is he being a good boyfriend in any other way? If so don't worry about it. If you're that concerned then watch it with him.
um...well this is kinda creepy but maybe this is him telling you that he wants to do it if you guys do not already and if you do then well maybe you should switch it up idk role play or new positions
Porn is actually good. not that im a guy.





If its straight porn, let it be. He'll be better in bed because seeing straight porn works like viagra and makes his sex better and longer lasting plus makes his sperm stronger.





Im a biochemist. Trust me, I know hormones like the back of my hand
Well, the truth is he is looking at and fantasizing about other women than you.


So yeah, I think this is a form of betrayal and cheating.
I'm not a guy - but my husband sometimes watches porn. We've been together for many years and I know he'd never cheat. I wouldn't worry about it at all unless he wanted to do that over be with you. And about the fact that it's amateur, I wouldn't worry about that either. I think that amateur porn is cheaper or can be free so maybe he just isn't wanting to spend much money on it because it's not that big of a deal to him.
it is common among guys. you should be worried if he would have been watching porn.
Woahh don't worry! Every guy does it! If he was cheating on you he wouldn't be out there doing it, not looking at it online. Besides he would prolly have his own sex tapes too. A guys gotta do what a guys gotta do and if he can't get it from you then who? Porn! No big deal at all. Seriously.
i used to trip off that.. but now i look at it this way, they will never meet any of the females on the videos.. an i rather them watch porn then to talk dirty to a real person or have intercourse with someone else..