How do i confront a cheating boyfriend?

ok this morning i read my boyfriends text message...yes it's wrong but i was suspicious and i saw messages to this girl he works with stuff like 'miss you and love you' and 'cutie' so he's obviously cheating but i told him today that if he's cheating he should tell me as i will probably find out anyway. I used to work in the same place and know people there. he acted like my questions were really irrational and i didnt mention the texts. should i tell him i read the texts or wait to catch him out. i've never had to deal with a cheating boyfrind and i want to know the best way to get the truth. thanksHow do i confront a cheating boyfriend?
ask if you can see his phone if he says no then be like why not are you keeping somthing from me then go from there. if he gives you the phone just go to the text and be like what the hell is this?? eather way the truth will come out.How do i confront a cheating boyfriend?
you don't have to tell him anything,the most important is that you know what is going on.and you also know that you can't be with someone who is not honest and plays behind your back.tell him,that you've had a nice time with him and that you've had enough of his niceness and leave him.just before you do that make sure texts were not from his mother or sister.Good LUCK!
well you could confront him and be truthfull and maybe you could work it


---or---


you could dump him nom because those texts say enough.





but would you really want to stay will a guy or get back with a guy tht once cheated, could you ever trust him again?





your call, i hope everything works out okay.


xoxo
Ask the people at work to check it out.


If you want to leave him because you think he's cheating you dont need him to admit it or accept it and validate your decision to leave him. You're allowed to go without his permission! If she wants him she will tell you herself if she finds out you know about them. Get your friends at work to drop hints to her!
face it!! you already have the truth. You don't have to hear him say it you already know. The next step is to walk away and start over with somebody new.
you may as well tell him you've read the text messages - whats the point in not doing so - I presume you're gona dump his cheating a*s anyway..... confront him head on with it - give him a good fright before ditching him


xx
ask him straight out and look out for sighns like twiching or if he starts to look down or if he dosent look you straight in the eyes or sweating anything like that then you know hes done something then dump is **** does that help
Well if it was me his stuff would be packed and waiting on the doorstep for him and I would be getting ready to go out and enjoy my new found freedom, but that's just me!
you dont, he is only going to try and get out of it. just leave and avoid more heartache. his an idiot
No point in confronting he will just make excuses. all boys do hun


you deserve beter x
the message says enough dump him now!
dnt worry, be happy :)
u shouldn't do anything just leave his a$$, it not worth it. Don't be dumb or else u will end up with idiots ur whole life. good luck!
I'd talk to him again and tell him that you have proof that he's cheating on you and you will give him one final chance to tell him the truth. If he doesn't, chuck him!